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When They Don’t Believe in Themselves Yet
Sometimes the biggest challenge isn’t the barrel pattern — it’s believing they belong there. There comes a point where your kid will...
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Aug 93 min read
The Power of Showing Up
There are kids more naturally gifted. There are fancier horses. There are bigger budgets. But none of that matters if you don’t show up....
afenner
Aug 82 min read
Cowboy Hard: The Lessons That Stick
You can’t teach grit from a book. You can’t gift confidence. And you definitely can’t bubble wrap a kid and expect them to become...
afenner
Aug 72 min read
The Strong Kind: Raising Kids Who Don’t Quit
We talk a lot about strength in rodeo — muscle, grit, horsepower. But the kind of strength we’re after runs deeper. It’s about mental...
afenner
Aug 62 min read
Raising for the Long Haul: Why We’re Not Chasing Fast Fame
We’ve seen it — the pressure to go faster, win sooner, peak early. It’s easy to get caught up in chasing that “next big win” or trying to...
afenner
Aug 52 min read
We’re Not Just Raising Riders — We’re Raising Rodeo People
It starts with horses. Always does. But somewhere along the way, it becomes more than that. Rodeo teaches our kids to ride — sure. But it...
afenner
Aug 42 min read
Coaching with Kindness: Teaching Kids Without Tearing Them Down
There’s a difference between being tough and being harsh. And there’s a world of difference between raising gritty kids — and raising...
afenner
Aug 32 min read
Small Pens, Big Lessons: What the Backyard Taught Us About Riding
You don’t need a covered arena with premium footing and grandstand seating to raise a great rider. Some of the best lessons we’ve ever...
afenner
Aug 22 min read
Glitter and Grit: Why Our Style Has Substance
Some folks ask if all the glitter is really necessary. The sparkly shirts, the fancy pants, the rhinestones on everything from halters to...
afenner
Aug 12 min read
The No-Drama Gate Crew: Keeping Kids Focused When It Counts
When it’s go time — the announcer calls their name, the horse starts to shift, the timer’s ready — the last thing a kid needs is chaos....
afenner
Jul 312 min read
Beyond the Pattern: Raising Kids With Feel
In rodeo, we spend a lot of time on patterns — getting the turns just right, the stride just perfect, the shape dialed in. But the very...
afenner
Jul 302 min read
Ride the Run You're In: Letting Go of Last Week's Mistakes
If there’s one thing rodeo teaches better than anything else, it’s how to start fresh — fast. You don’t get to bring last week’s tipped...
afenner
Jul 292 min read
It’s OK to Love It Too Much: Passion Isn’t a Problem
You’ve probably heard it, maybe even felt it: “You’re too into this.” “It’s just a hobby.” “Maybe scale it back a little.” But out here,...
afenner
Jul 282 min read
The Long Game: Planning for Generations, Not Just Seasons
In the fast-paced world of rodeo and horse sales, it’s tempting to focus on the short term: The next big win. The next big cross. The...
afenner
Jul 272 min read
A Barn Full of Bosses: Why We Want Our Kids to Lead
Some folks raise quiet kids who stay out of the way in the barn. We raise bosses. Not bossy. Not bratty. Bosses. Kids who know how to...
afenner
Jul 262 min read
The Walk Back: How We Talk After the Run Matters Most
Ranch Manager, Breeder, Rodeo Mom You’ve seen it a hundred times — the run’s over, the gate swings open, and the kid starts walking back,...
afenner
Jul 252 min read
Breeding for Brains, Not Just Bloodlines
Everybody loves to talk papers. First Dash This, Frenchmans That, money earners, pink buckle darlings — and don’t get us wrong, those...
afenner
Jul 242 min read
Family First, Rodeo Always: How We Make It All Work
The world likes to tell us we have to choose — family or career, motherhood or ambition, kids or ..... But out here, we do things...
afenner
Jul 232 min read
Trust First, Train Second: The Foundation Every Horse Needs
You can have the fanciest saddle, the flashiest bloodlines, and the prettiest arena dirt. But if a horse doesn’t trust you, none of it...
afenner
Jul 222 min read
Big Dreams, Small Towns: Making a Life in the Middle of Nowhere
People love to ask, “Why don’t you move somewhere bigger?” More opportunity. More races. More horses. More chances to “make it.” But at...
afenner
Jul 192 min read
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