Stepping Up in Competition: Making the Leap Without Losing the Love
- afenner
- Aug 23, 2025
- 4 min read
Moving from local jackpots to larger barrel races is exciting — but it can feel overwhelming. The venues are busier, the arenas are larger, and the margin for error feels smaller. But stepping up doesn’t mean you have to trade joy for pressure.
This post is for families thinking about entering bigger barrel and pole bending events. It’s for the kid who wants to see how far they can go and the parent who wants to support them without pulling the engine apart.
Why Stepping Up Is a Big Deal in Barrel Racing and Pole Bending
Higher-level barrel and pole bending events expose young riders to deeper talent pools, faster horses, and a different pace of competition. The risk isn’t just a worse finish — it’s a hit to confidence if the debut goes poorly.
So the question isn’t just can we enter — it’s can we enter in a way that builds resilience, skill, and love for the sport? The answer is yes, when you plan the move carefully for these specific events.
Pre-Event Checklist: Readiness, Not Recklessness
Before entering a bigger event, honestly evaluate these items:
Horse health: Soundness, hydration, and any travel-related considerations. If you’re hauling farther than usual, be conservative.
Fitness & rest: Has your horse been conditioned for multiple runs? Is the horse rested and mentally fresh after training cycles?
Rider readiness: Has your rider handled pressure in simulations — timed runs, noise, and having people watch? Do they have basic mental tools (breathing, visualization)?
Tack & backups: Extra reins, spare cinch, bell boots, splint boots, and a show-safe outfit that fits and doesn’t distract.
Logistics: Entry confirmations, draw times, Coggins and health check, directions, and a realistic arrival plan.
If anything feels off, consider waiting for the next event. Confidence is harder to rebuild than an entry fee.
The Mindset Shift: Execution Goals Over Placement Goals
At a higher level the field is deeper. Instead of obsessing over placings, set execution goals specific to barrel and pole runs:
Hit your approach point to the first barrel.
Keep a steady rate through the turns.
Finish the pattern with a balanced, confident exit.
Execution goals are repeatable and within the rider’s control. They reduce the emotional fallout when the clock doesn’t match hope.
Practice with Purpose
Structure matters more than volume. In the weeks before a step-up event:
Simulate the setting. Practice with other horses nearby, use a PA or recorded crowd noise, and rehearse entering the arena gate.
Match timing. If your draw will be midday, do practice runs around that time so horse and rider sync to the rhythm.
Isolate trouble spots. If the issue is the first barrel or the third pole turn, drill that piece alone until it’s reliable.
Mental reps. Walk the pattern visually, feel the turns in your mind, and rehearse calm exits.
The goal is familiarity: the more your team has seen and felt, the less the venue surprises them.
Hauling & Arrival Tips
Longer hauls and unfamiliar grounds can unsettle horses and kids. A few practical routines help:
Consistent feeding & watering: Keep the horse on its usual schedule and offer water often, especially on hot days.
Comfort items: Bring familiar stall mats, a favorite pad or blanket, and the horse’s usual grain to keep routine intact.
Arrival routine: Unload and walk the horse, allow a short turnout if safe, and check legs and equipment early.
Rider comforts: Snacks, a refillable water bottle, a hat, and a quiet place to regroup between runs.
A calm travel plan reduces surprises on event day.
Warm-Up Strategies for Bigger Venues
Warm-ups at larger events can be noisy and cramped. Keep warm-ups efficient and calming:
Breathe first: Teach a 3-breath calming routine before mounting.
Quick, purposeful checks: Walk, trot, and lope to confirm responsiveness.
One-focus warm-up: Choose a single objective (approach to barrel/pole, responsiveness to leg) and work that, then stop.
Avoid the show-off trap: Don’t waste energy trying to impress in warm-up. Save it for your run.
Leave enough in the tank for a sharp, focused pattern.
Nerves on Game Day: Simple Tools for Young Competitors
Nerves are normal. Teach quick, reliable tools your rider can use in the alley or on-deck:
Box breathing: 4 in, 4 hold, 4 out, 4 hold — one or two cycles.
Short anchor phrase: “Ride the plan” or “One breath, one turn.”
Grounding cue: Press the heel in the stirrup to center balance and focus.
Micro-visualization: Picture the first approach and the feel of a good turn for 10 seconds before entering.
Practice these until they become reflexive.
Parent & Coach Language: Keep It Simple, Keep It Calm
When stepping up, your words matter more than you think. Use concise, supportive language:
Say this:
“You’ve prepared. Trust your plan.”
“Breathe and ride the line we practiced.”
“One turn at a time.”
Don’t say this:
“You have to place.”
“Don’t mess up.”
Long technical cues right before the run.
Your calm voice keeps the rider present.
Post-Event Recovery: Protect Confidence and Health
After the run, follow a consistent recovery routine:
Immediate connection: Offer a hug or a calm compliment — something real and specific.
Quick debrief: Ask what felt right; name one small improvement.
Check the horse: Walk to cool down, inspect legs, and provide electrolytes if needed.
Celebrate the courage: Remind them stepping up took guts, regardless of placings.
Delay detailed technical breakdowns until later; protect their confidence in the moment.
Final Thoughts
Stepping up in barrel racing and pole bending is a big milestone, but it can be managed with preparation, intention, and emotional support.
Teach your kid to measure success by execution and growth, not by the scoreboard. Help them set goals they can control, travel and warm-up with routines that reduce chaos, and always prioritize the horse’s physical and mental well-being.
Give them permission to try, to fail, and to learn — and watch them grow into riders who love the sport for life.
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Ann-Marie Fenner
Ranch Manager, Breeder, Rodeo Mom
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